Love Your Husband 3 Ways…

1. Feed him … he is always hungry! 

I love my husband, but he gets up in the morning asking what is for dinner and goes to bed at night asking what is for breakfast? He is a foodie and he can eat 24/7. He loves food and never gains a pound. This is what we all wish for, right? 

Food is pleasurable and we all associate food with love. Food makes us feel good and we always celebrate with food. Families eating together build their relationship and it causes their kids to do better in school. 

The Bible says in Proverbs 31:15 Even in the night season she arises and sets food on the table for hungry ones in her house and for others.  

Have a fridge full of yummy, easy, and healthy meals. Experts say we eat the same three meals every week…so let’s get them ready. Feeding others is true love. Win his heart with breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

2. Pray for him… he is fighting to be a godly man!

I was a Christian spoiling my own marriage and happiness with fear and worry, then one day the Holy Spirit changed me by teaching me to pray about everything and worry about nothing. 

The Bible tells us how to have a good marriage, Philippians 4:6 Don’t be pulled in different directions or worried about a thing. Be saturated in prayer throughout each day, offering your faith-filled requests before God with overflowing gratitude. Tell him every detail of your life. 

Tell God what you need and trust God to help you. You can talk to Jesus about a half-full glass or half-empty glass. Just make sure you are talking to God about your concerns, not people who do not know God, His Word, or how to pray. God is the only one who can work a miracle for you and your husband. 

3. Laugh with him… make sex fun!

I love my husband and I learned how to show him incredible love. Good clean sex shows your husband you love him. Sex builds his confidence and helps him feel loved and respected. Every man needs 8 to 10 meaningful touches of affection a day to help maintain emotional and physical health. Studies proves that sex calm’s anxiety, alleviates stress, treats: arthritis, back pain, cancer, high blood pressure, depression, and headaches. A hug also lifts his spirits and helps them get through tough times. 

A good kiss daily helps your husband miss less work because of illness, have fewer auto accidents, earn 30% more money per month, live 5 years longer, produce a hormone in your brain that elevates your mood and you will feel happier. 

My husband loves me to laugh at his jokes - laughter builds the immune system, laughter speeds the healing process, the happiest people live the longest and happy people stay healthy. I love the list of things that you can give your husband that are free and fun, like laughter, sex, kissing, and a hug. 

The Bible says in Proverbs 17:22 …a merry heart does good like a medicine. 

It is a proven fact women laugh more than men ---our job is to teach our husbands how to laugh. I am smiling now – hope you are too!

Let’s give the best, most exciting, and loving gifts of sex, food and prayer.